Wow! It's been a week since our 6th anniversary and I can't believe the changes with each other.
Let's start from the beginning: Last week
We had our anniversary trip to see Robby and Grant Terry in BR. Fun times!!! We ate at TJ Ribs, stayed at a new to us hotel, and listened to some AWESOME music. I got to meet an high school buddy of Hoss's. Pretty cool guy. Friday was a little more interesting. See I have a habit of losing things especially in the past two years or so. It used to be a around the house habit -- keys mainly. Now it's keys in the store, grumpy bear in the hotel and we thought camera at the zoo.
We went to the BR Zoo and it was ok with an explosive end! Hoss got sooo mad at me because I couldn't find the camera after we left and we decided to just drive around. Ok I understand he had the right to be upset but it's not like I do it on purpose. Turns out, after driving BACK to the zoo and him looking, I was sitting on it. I swear I checked!!!
| Us before the camera went missing :) |
Anyways that was the weekend. And it's been pretty wonderful since. The occassional lost temper -- we work a lot. But exactly how it should have always been. Guess we finally got rid of the junk that got in between our relationship.
**Steps on Soapbox**
See Hoss and I tend to have a lot of traditional role reversals. But it normally works for us. I don't care about your relationship, don't bother mine is how I feel.
He most definately does NOT control me or tell me what to do, and I do my best not to come across that way because I don't control him. Our marriage is not about control, it's about respect. And it burns me up when someone makes a comment about telling me what to do or how THEY would NEVER be controlled by a WOMAN. That's a wonderful sign of a controlling jerk and I will not be subjected to that. And seriouslly if you want something from me, ask me not him.
People who think they know our relationship is in for a shock. I never controlled Hoss, we just let people think what they want to. Just like Hoss never asked me permission for stuff but always made it sound like he had to. People really can be naive when they have a prejudice against someone and I love living up (or down) to those standards, I get loads of laughs. Nope I'm not nice and make no apologies
**Steps off**